today i watch a movie that honey gave me " NO STRING ATTACHED"
The story of the movie is about a man and lady, they are being a " sex partner" rather is a couple...
all along their relationship they have come out some rules that they cant love each other, they cant hug each other, they cant jealous to each other, they cant campur tangan in their daily life, if anyone break the rules, their relationship will gone. as the time passed, the man have the feeling to the lady 1st, he tend to confess to her on valentine day. but the lady get shock, she duwan to get hurt, so she hurt the man and leave him... but that's only let her realize that she is so care about him, she is so love him, she just cant stop thinking and missing about him... she also jealous when the man have other ladies go near to him.... this prove that, when a person engage in a relationship, there is no such much freedom already.... this can be seen in this movie, although at the first, the lady try to set up the rules, let each other have their freedom, but at last, the freedom will decrease along with the relationship.
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still remember that day i asked u whether u have enough freedom???
u answered me that now ur freedom is decreasing....
and u said some of ur friends broke up with their gf, they felt so free without their gf...
wat i want to tell here is, once a person engage in a relationship,
the "freedom" will be decrease, this is not because ur gf or bf not trusting u,
but it is because they care so much about u...
sometime, each other have some space is good, but when the space is too much,
it will influence the relationship...
n the most important thing is communication....
guys, although sometime ur girl will say she is fine, she is alright with that, she is ok with it,
but actually they are not....
they just duwan u to worry, they just duwan u to say they are so "fan",
every girl, they are so worry that their boys will say they are so "fan",
every girl, they are trying to do their best to maintain their relationship,
they will try everything because they are so care about u, because they are so love u....
do u guys know these???
im just sharing my opinion here, if there is something that u are not agree, kindly leave ur comments....
n i wish to know how the guys think about this issues.... :)
